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THE GOVERNMENT HAS ALREADY WRITTEN A DEFAULT PRENUP FOR YOU. WOULDN'T YOU RATHER WRITE IT YOURSELF with your partner?

Why Consider a prenup?

Marriage is about love, but it also involves many financial decisions before you say “I do” and after your wedding day. A prenuptial agreement (prenup) lets you and your partner clarify how assets, debts, and financial responsibilities will be managed, ensuring a smoother future—no matter what life throws your way. Whether you're blending finances or keeping things separate, a prenup gives both partners peace of mind and helps build trust through open discussions. While there are not good statistics on this because prenups are not public record, At Strive Law Firm, we strongly believe that our clients who collaboratively work with their partner to develop a mutually beneficial prenup, are significantly less likely to ever need that prenup to begin with! 

When should you get Prenup?

We think everyone should consider a prenup, but if any of these apply to you, please very seriously consider getting a prenup.

Prenups aren’t just for the wealthy—they're about planning for the future. Even couples without substantial assets today can benefit from establishing guidelines to avoid misunderstandings down the road.

  • You own a business and want to protect your investments.
  • One of you has significant assets or debts before marriage.
  • You’re marrying later in life and wish to keep retirement funds secure.
  • You have children from a prior relationship and want to safeguard their inheritance.

what can a prenup cover?

A well-drafted prenup can:

  • Keep premarital property separate from marital assets.
  • Assign responsibility for debt management.
  • Set terms for spousal support if the relationship ends.
  • Address business ownership, especially if the business grows during the marriage.


However, there are limits to what a prenup can do. It can’t predetermine child custody or support, nor can it include clauses that encourage divorce.

Building Stronger Foundations

Consulting
 with an Attorney

The process of drafting a prenuptial agreement encourages couples to have honest conversations about finances, expectations, and goals—key ingredients for a healthy marriage. With transparency from the start, you’re setting the tone for a partnership built on trust and understanding.

Every couple is different, which is why your prenup should reflect your unique needs. It’s crucial for both partners to have independent legal representation to ensure the agreement is fair and enforceable. We’re here to help guide you through the process, ensuring your prenup aligns with North Carolina laws and strengthens your relationship from day one.

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Prenup Review 

  • Review of already drafted prenup from other party
  • Review and recommendations
  • Edits and revisions
  • Negotiations with other party/counsel
  • Finalize prenup

Prenup Strategy and Drafting

  • Strategize options and variations
  • Recommendations on clauses/options/variations
  • Negotiations with other party/counsel
  • Edits and revisions
  • Finalize prenup

Prostnup Strategy and Drafting

  • Strategize options and variations
  • Recommendations on clauses/options/variations
  • Negotiations with other party/counsel
  • Edits and revisions
  • Finalize postnup