The Prenup Girl's Guide to Fun, Trendy, and Romantic First Date Spots in Raleigh, NC

OCTOBER 1, 2024

BLOG POST BY CARLIE SPENCER

Whether you’re into cozy coffee shops, rooftop bars with skyline views, or something sweet to nibble on, Raleigh has you covered. Here are my top picks for fun, trendy, and romantic spots to kick off your first date—and who knows, it might just be the beginning of your happily ever after.

Before wedding bells and prenups, you’ve got to have a great first date to start your love story! 

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If you’re looking for a first date spot that’s chic, intimate, and oh-so-romantic, Jolie is the place. This French bistro has all the charm of Paris, but without the international flight. Think cozy seating, candlelight, and a rooftop terrace that’s perfect for sipping wine under the stars. 

You’ll feel like you’ve stepped into a scene from a romantic movie—La La Land vibes, anyone? Start with a few shared small plates (the escargot is divine!), and if the date is going well, linger over a second glass of wine while the lights twinkle above you. A stroll around the downtown Raleigh area after dinner is the cherry on top.

The Prenup Girl’s Menu Rec: Start with the escargot and tuna crudo, and then you cannot go wrong with the Steak Frites!

Check out their Instagram and website. Or go ahead and make that reservation!

1. Jolie – For the Francophile Romance

If your love language is food (and whose isn’t?), Death & Taxes is the first date spot where sparks—and flavors—are bound to fly. Located in the coolest historic building, this restaurant serves up wood-fired goodness that’ll have you both talking about that amazing meal for days. It’s elegant, but not stuffy, making it perfect for a first date where you want to impress, but not overwhelm.

The menu is top-notch, and the ambiance strikes the perfect balance of sophisticated and laid-back. You’ll have plenty to talk about over dishes like roasted oysters and grilled pork chops. Plus, sharing the chocolate chess pie for dessert? That’s instant chemistry.

The Prenup Girl’s Menu Rec: Every single starter. All of them. And then the dry-aged strip. Actually, you should feel confident ordering literally anything on this menu!

Check out their Instagram and website. 

2. Death & Taxes – For the Foodie Connection

Nothing says romance like chocolate, right? Videri Chocolate Factory is a unique, fun spot to visit for a sweet first date that is as laid-back as it is charming. Start by exploring and touring the factory, learning how the chocolate is made, and having some samples. Then, head to the café area where you can grab a cup of coffee, a hot chocolate, or even a scoop of homemade gelato.

This is the perfect spot for a first date that feels fun and low-pressure. You’re not sitting down for a full meal (which can be intimidating for a first-time meetup), but you’re still sharing a cute, memorable experience together. And let’s be honest—what could be sweeter than bonding over chocolate?

Check out their Instagram and website.

3. Videri Chocolate Factory – For the Sweet and Playful Date

If you’re into a more relaxed vibe with a killer view, then Level7 Rooftop Bar is your go-to. Overlooking the city, this bar is perfect for grabbing cocktails while you both take in the sunset (or city lights, depending on your timing). The atmosphere is trendy but chill, making it a great spot to get to know each other without distractions.

Rooftop bars are always a win for date night, but Level7 brings it up a notch with comfy seating, craft cocktails, and a view that’ll make your heart skip a beat (whether it’s the company or the skyline, who knows?). It’s an ideal spot for casual conversation and flirting. 
Level7 is a great evening first date spot, but keep in mind they also have a Sunday brunch! 

The Prenup Girl’s Rec: The Smoked Manhattan and a Charcuterie board are excellent options. My go-to red wine is the Layer Cake Pinot Noir.

Check out their Instagram and website. 

4. Level7 Rooftop Bar – For the Skyline Views

Coffee dates are classic for a reason—they’re relaxed, easy, and perfect for when you want to test the waters without the commitment of a long dinner. Sola Coffee Café is one of Raleigh’s coziest spots, with warm lighting, comfy chairs, and an atmosphere that invites lingering. Grab a latte or try one of their famous mini donuts (trust me, they’re a game-changer).

If you’re looking for something more casual but still so charming, Sola is the perfect setting. Whether you’re bonding over coffee, pastries, or both, this spot is great for those “let’s just see how things go” kind of dates. Plus, if it goes well, the café has plenty of nearby parks for a post-coffee stroll.

The Prenup Girl’s Menu Rec: Weird choice, but the Ultra Green Juice is awesome. 

Check out their Instagram and website. 

5. Sola Coffee Café – For the Low-Key, Cozy Date

At the end of the day, a first date is all about finding a spot where you can connect, relax, and (hopefully) spark some chemistry. Whether you’re going for rooftop views, a sweet chocolate indulgence, or a cozy coffee shop chat, Raleigh has no shortage of great places to set the scene for your love story. So pick a spot, bring your A-game, and who knows? This first date might be the start of something amazing.

Final Thought: The Perfect First Date Spot Is All About the Vibe

XOXO,