Carlie is driven by a deep commitment to serving others, a passion she put into action by establishing Strive Law Firm. Her goal is to connect with each client on a personal level, assisting them in determining the next steps to enter a new, better chapter of life. Carlie graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Applied Mathematics from Troy University and earned her law degree from Campbell Law School. Carlie utilizes her background in data analytics to assist clients with their family financial matters with high level understanding and ability to provide comprehensive financial and legal advice during the division of assets or spousal support areas of family law proceedings.
During law school Carlie ran for Raleigh City Council and excelled on the mock trial team, receiving the National Mock Trial Outstanding Advocate Award. Carlie uses her extensive background in advocacy and public speaking to bring strong and strategic litigation methods to the courtroom when necessary to stand up for what her clients deserve. Alternatively, Carlie also has deep rooted interpersonal skills that she employs to get clients advantageous settlements.
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MEET CARLIE SPENCER corlett
Presently, Carlie channels her passion into advocating for her family law clients, showcasing expertise in various areas such as divorce, child custody, child support, alimony, domestic violence, and more. Recognizing the emotional challenges of family law matters, Carlie is dedicated to helping clients navigate the legal system and achieve the best outcomes for their families. Carlie also spends time working as a supervising attorney and professor for Campbell Law School's Pro Bono Family Law Clinic in Raleigh, NC. Most recently, Carlie authored and published "The Prenup Girl's Guide to a Successful Marriage" alongside Olivia Reiff. The book is a great resource for anyone looking to learn more about what prenups can and cannot do to help strength your marriage and can be purchased here.
During her leisure time, Carlie indulges in outdoor activities like playing pickle ball and enjoying time with her pup, Remy! Her interests also extend to cooking, reading, and a favorite pastime – creating delightful charcuterie boards to share with friends and family.
Carlie stands as a skilled and experienced family law attorney, wholeheartedly devoted to assisting her clients. If you find yourself grappling with a family law matter, Carlie is here to provide the support and guidance you need.
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MEET olivia reiff
Olivia first joined Strive Law firm team in 2024 and is thrilled to serve all of the Strive clients as a North Carolina licensed attorney. As a North Carolina native from Cabarrus County, Olivia is passionate about strengthening families and building up the communities that hold them together. She fell in love with family law back in 2021 during her first job at a law firm—drawn to the chance to walk with the opportunity it affords to make a direct difference in people’s lives, helping them to find clarity and support throughout some of their most stressful and uncertain days.
During her time at Campbell Law School, Olivia was active in the legal community, serving as Vice President of Women in Law and participating in the Gailor Family Law Litigation Clinic to provide pro bono legal services to Wake County families.
Before law school, Olivia took a creative route—earning her bachelor’s
degree in art conservation from the University of Delaware and working in museums. That same careful eye and deep sense of empathy now shape the thoughtful, client-centered approach she brings to her work in family law.
Working at Strive Law Firm, Olivia has been instrumental in the logistical and strategic management of cases dealing with domestic violence, prenups, custody, financial matters, divorce, etc. Olivia also co-authored and published “The Prenup Girl’s Guide to a Successful Marriage” alongside Attorney Carlie Spencer, which can be purchased here.
Outside the office, you’ll likely find Olivia trying out new Raleigh restaurants, cooking something fun in her own kitchen, or curled up with a good book. She’s also a lifelong Girl Scout–always ready to lead with compassion and integrity.
Associate Attorney
MEET macie hardin
Macie Hardin is an Associate Attorney at Strive Law Firm with a passion for serving individuals during some of the most significant and sensitive moments of their lives. Macie is originally from Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and earned her undergraduate degree in Political Science from the College of Charleston.
Macie earned her law degree from Campbell University School of Law. While at Campbell Law School, Macie has served as the Vice President of the Student Bar Association and has participated in the Family Law Clinic, providing pro bono legal services to Wake County families. Macie’s time in the Family Law Clinic shaped her commitment to helping North Carolinians navigate challenging family and life decisions. Her practice covers custody and child support, spousal support and alimony, equitable distribution, absolute divorce, domestic violence protective orders, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.
In her free time, Macie loves spending time at the beach, hanging out with her family’s golden doodles, attending country music concerts, and traveling whenever she can.
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MEET jem murdock
Jem is a Cary native who brings years of family law experience to Strive Law Firm. Her passion for advocacy started early: involvement in speech and debate and student government taught her how to speak up for her peers, and that same drive now shapes the way she serves Strive's clients. Jem attended the University of North Carolina at Wilmington and interned for the U.S. House of Representatives before returning home to the Triangle to build her career in the legal field.
As a paralegal, Jem loves being part of each case and working directly with clients as they navigate some of the most challenging seasons of their lives. She is a valued member of the Strive team who especially enjoys helping develop and carry out unique solutions for unique situations, ensuring that every client and family receives support tailored to their needs.
Outside the office, Jem loves to travel, throw pottery, and play piano. She also enjoys spending time with her cat, Venus, when not rooting for the Carolina Panthers.
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MEET remy
Remy is a three-year-old Mini Goldendoodle and the unofficial Director of Morale.
When he’s not supervising the office, he’s making his rounds for pets, greeting every human like a long-lost friend, and reminding everyone to take important snack breaks.
His professional skills include tail wagging, emotional support, and looking extremely cute while doing absolutely no billable work.
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our mission: At Strive Law Firm we STRIVE to protect families, preserve futures, and prove that empathy and excellence can coexist.
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I can’t say enough good things about Attorney Spencer. From day one, she’s been honest, sharp, and fully dedicated to helping me. We had a great outcome in my case, and I honestly couldn’t be happier.
What I love most is that she truly cares. She made me feel heard, supported, and confident every step of the way. I feel at peace knowing I have both God and her on my side.
I’m so thankful I hired her, and I’m excited to keep working with her. If you want someone who knows what they’re doing and actually cares, she’s the one!
"I honestly couldn't be happier"
"My husband followed Carlie from another law firm that we originally were at and went with her when she decided to open her own firm. Best decision that was made. Her wit and knowledge made watching her in the courtroom that much better. She was able to effectively assist us in a "to-the-point" manner.
I will be recommending her to anyone and everyone who needs a good family lawyer. She and her team are phenomenal and were so supportive and thorough during this process. I cannot thank them enough."
"SHE AND HER TEAM ARE PHENOMENAL."
"I recently had my first experience seeking professional representation, and I must say it was overwhelming and confusing to say the least. Selecting the right fit and personality for my situation at the time was of utmost importance! After much prayer, research, and family support. I found Attorney Carlie Spencer who turned out to be an excellent choice. She's not aware of me and my family members nickname her as a "Little Pit Bull" She's a fighter!"
"She's a fighter"
"I followed Carlie Spencer from another firm here. She is fantastic. Her communication is leagues above other attorneys I have dealt with. Her response time is quick. I would recommend her firm to anyone especially dealing with the family courts. She resolved all our problems and fought tooth and nail for us. Couldn't be more pleased."
"COULDN'T BE MORE PLEASED"
I highly recommend the Strive Law Firm and their team for anyone seeking family law assistance. From the moment I contacted them, I felt supported and confident in their expertise. They were professional, compassionate, and always kept me informed throughout the process. Carlie truly cares about her clients and goes above and beyond to achieve the best possible outcome. Thank you for your dedication and exceptional service!
"ALWAYS KEPT ME INFORMED"
My initial encounter with seeking legal aid for my family member left me feeling bewildered. Finding suitable counsel that understood our needs took precedence. Following rigorous investigation and divine guidance, Attorney Carlie Spencer joined our team(family) providing unparalleled support thus allowing us to finally exhale and ending our quest. To me she represented our light at the end of a dark tunnel!
